Like many kids, my 6-year-old son, Henrik, doesn’t like to travel. If I had to boil it down to one single reason, I’d say the constant transitions — new scenery, new bed, different food in unfamiliar restaurants — overwhelm him.
My husband and I have tried a variety of approaches to help Henrik adjust more easily to his new surroundings. We’ve shown him online photos of our upcoming destinations, drawn flow charts of each day’s events and created incentives in the hope that they would motivate him to hold it together. What we never did was ask Henrik what he thought would help him enjoy our family vacations.
Then on a trip to San Miguel de Allende, Mexico, Henrik asked to use my camera and I discovered that taking photographs helped him relax and enjoy himself. As I watched him peer through the lens, I realized that he was framing the experience for himself. For a kid, traveling often means that your parents call all the shots. Henrik clearly needed a way to control even a tiny slice of the experience. I’m just happy it helped him enjoy himself.
Does your child have a hard time traveling? Share your experiences and tips.
Below: Here’s one of my favorite photos from that trip. I love the colors and the way the sharp angles of the pool steps contrast with the circular patterns of the raindrops.

Then again, I’m not exactly objective.