Kid stuff

Posted on August 11th, 2008 – 7:49 AM
By Robyn Dochterman

Yesterday, while walking past a neighbor family’s house,  six-year-old Tyler came bounding out the door and ran down the road to greet me and my partner. He was the picture of summer: mismatched t-shirt and shorts, barefoot, and sporting a fudgesicle mustache. Breathless, he told us his family had just gotten back from vacation.

Thinking he wanted to talk about that, we quizzed him if he’d gone swimming, biking, fishing. He impatiently answered our questions before blurting out the true motive for his adorable ambush. We’d told him last fall he could help us pick wild grapes this year and learn to make jelly. Was it time yet?

My heart melted faster than the ice cream on his stick.

We pointed to the wild grapes growing up the telephone pole nearby. They were still green, we explained. It’s taking them a long time to get ripe this year and they had to be ripe to pick. But we assured Tyler that when he saw them turning dark purple, we’d pick them together.

I know if I had a child of my own, they probably would think I am  obsessive about gardening as I thought my own mother was. But how I would love to have a kid like Tyler, eager to learn what I know, and eager to eat what he helped make. He totally made my day.

Do you share your gardening or food adventures with kids? What kind of experiences have you had? What would you teach them if you could? What have they taught you?

11 Responses to "Kid stuff"

Mn Mom says:

August 11th, 2008 at 11:53 am

I think sharing a love of nature and/or gardening is a precious gift for a child. I grew up one of seven children in Minnesota and our mother’s gardening bug is evidenced in all of her children. We all do it in our own way. My own children grew up in suburban Long Island on a very small lot, but they know where their vegetables come from because we grew them “square foot garden” style. We also took them to wonderful public gardens at every opportunity. Yes, sometimes it was a forced march. They are college students now, but I await signs that their inner gardener has emerged….any season now.

Robyn Dochterman says:

August 11th, 2008 at 12:24 pm

Sounds like you gave your kids a great grounding, Mn Mom. It took me a long time to come back to gardening, but I did it with gusto once I realized it wasn’t something I had to — but really wanted to.

Valerie says:

August 11th, 2008 at 3:35 pm

I love to take my niece and nephew apple picking in the fall. We have a great time at the local orchards, picking, sampling, and doing all the other activities that make it more of an adventure for them. They see it as an outing, not a “learning experience” - although they can name more types of apples than I can! I like to think it’s something they enjoy, and will carry forward into some sort of tradition of their own, later.

Robyn Dochterman says:

August 11th, 2008 at 6:44 pm

Is there a best age for activities such as apple picking? Anyone have ideas for young kids?

Amy F says:

August 11th, 2008 at 8:47 pm

I went apple picking last fall with my 1.5 and 3.5 year olds and it went great. They got to run around, the three year old was good at picking, the little guy picked some off the ground occasionally. A good time was had by all and we went twice. I really liked Fall Harvest Orchard — lots of animals to feed (without the petting-zoo feel), very friendly owners who took toy tractors down from a collection to let my toddler play with, and great prices. We’re going back this Friday for opening day.

I left a big patch of my garden unplanted this year and let my boys dig in it — best gardening move of the year. I can weed, plant, harvest, etc and know where they are. They occasionally help. The four year old can put in seeds and both are decent waterers. They love peas, beans, and tomatoes right off the plants, despite being reluctant veggie eaters at meals. They roleplay gardening inside. I love that they’re excited about the garden.

Jaime Chismar says:

August 11th, 2008 at 10:35 pm

Thanks for being polite, Robyn, but that was no kid… That was me. I want to make jam, too! Hee hee!

Robin says:

August 12th, 2008 at 6:32 am

I had my daughter’s 15 year friend help me dig potatoes and then we went to pick green beans. She told me that was the first time she had seen bean plants and did not know they had grown that way. I then took her around the rest of the garden with me, showing the plants and explaining what they were and how they grew.
I hope the garden made an impression on her, as her parents are obviously not gardeners.
I also tell my kids and their friends that they are welcome to raid the garden anytime. And they do.

Jennifer says:

August 12th, 2008 at 8:45 am

My two year old loves to watch the veggies grow in our garden. His favorite is the pot of strawberries and each day he runs out there to see if there are any red ones he can pick. He also enjoys to pick the fresh peas and eat them. Although last night he ran over to the cucumber and picked on that was not quite ready and said, “Momma, I got you a pickle!”. It’s fun watching him learning and at dinner having him understand what he’s eating came from the garden.

Mn Mom says:

August 12th, 2008 at 12:45 pm

All this makes me wish my kids were small again…so much fun. We had fun planting seeds…big ones they could see and handle like marigold seeds. We made house plants by rooting the top of a pineapple from the store and planting an avacado half way in dirt and watching it split and the shoot come up…indoor plants for “free.” And of course trying to grow your own pumpkins if you have the room is a true kid thriller.

Fiona says:

August 14th, 2008 at 9:49 pm

I got my love of gardening from my British parents and especially my Grandfather who had a huge allotment as well as a backyard garden. One of the best pictures of us as kids is the three of us in his wheelbarrow munching on carrots fresh from his garden. Rebellious teenage years was the only time I spent without a green thumb. And now I just hope to share it with my nephews (I’m a committed spinster). My favorite gift for toddler kids are mini garden gifts, even if it is just a little indoor kit. The best thing is fostering the love of gardening and cooking together.

Erika says:

August 18th, 2008 at 2:15 pm

My mom is a huge gardener. When I was little, she would pay me a penny for each weed I picked. It was a nice way for me to make some money (at times, I would spend hours weeding), and spend time with my mom. When I got older, the hour after dinner always was the time that me and my mom would go outside to garden. Well, she would actually do work while I just sat and talked. I hope that I will be able to pass down this ritual to my kids, whenever I have them.